When You're Unsure About Staying Married
A private, two-day couples retreat with Tamara Port, LCSW, marriage specialist
Maybe one of you is ready to work on the marriage and the other is wondering whether too much has happened. Maybe you both feel torn. It can be hard to talk honestly about the future when every conversation feels like it could decide it.
I offer this two-day retreat for couples who want help thinking through whether to stay married. We'll set aside time to talk about what brought you here, what each of you is struggling with, and what you would need to know before deciding how to move forward.
What We'll Work Through Together
How you got here. We'll look at the experiences, hurts, and patterns that have shaped how each of you feels about the marriage today.
What each of you wants and needs. I'll help you put words to what still matters to you, what feels uncertain, and what would need to change for you to consider staying.
What a next step could look like. We'll explore what it would take to make a genuine effort to rebuild, what separation might mean, and what you may still need time to consider.
You Can Come In With Different Answers
I welcome couples who are in different places. I'll make space for both of you to speak honestly, and I won't steer you toward staying together or separating. The goal is to leave with a clearer understanding of where you each stand and a next step you can take, even if the larger decision still needs time.
Interested in a retreat? Reach out to tell me a little about where you are and find out whether this format feels right for both of you.